being a dyed in the wool northeasterner means i have certain proclivities:.
a love of smashmouth nfc east football and an abiding affection for underachieving baseball teamsthe ability to find woody allen films (nee' woody allen himself) exceptionally funnyan uncontrollable desire to drive 4 miles out of my way to go to the place with the better bagelsno aversion to psychotherapy/analysisi went under psychotherapy for about 8 months; not near long enough to get the kind of depth thats needed but it was still insightful and liberating in its truncated form.
resistance is a huge factor in the process and i fought it like most, maybe with a subconscious disadvantage stemming from an inbred fear of "the world".
Resistance is a huge factor in the process and I fought it like most, maybe with a subconscious disadvantage stemming from an inbred fear of "the world".
Exactly!
I've been seeing a therapist for several months, and I've only just finished playing silly mind-games and started to make some headway at last!
The very same issues as a lot of people here too.
tim
what are some of your forum pet peeves?.
paragraphs - please use them.
i'm sure you have something to say but if it makes my eyes bleed i pass.. capitals - i don't know about you but i think this just looks juvenile but no worse than this.
One I hate is excessive spelling and grammatical errors
Shouldn't that read; "Two I hate are excessive spelling and grammatical errors........."?
That aside, my minimal span of attention just won't let me trawl through long paragraphs. My mind tends to.......um, thingy, you know?
tim
what i wish i was doing is sliding out of a hotel bed with a view onto the mountains or the sea and getting ready for a lazy day by the pool being served margharitas whilst i people watch and reading my book.
i'd plan on a pizza and a salad after a vigorous swim.
possibly retiring to my air conditioned room when it gets too hot for some fun with one of my two playmates.
I think I'd like to be on the cusp of doing something really exciting - paragliding, scubadiving or something else that I've never done before.
On the other hand, a simple country walk with a favourite lady sounds pretty idyllic at the moment....
tim
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it is understandable how someone who has been a jehovahs witness .
for a number of years could become complacent and except their lot in life.
They didn't exactly kill my drive (I was actually more driven to see them proven wrong), but it sure put limits on my self-esteem and self-confidence.
I still have feelings of inadequacy and intense self-doubt- but not about my choice to leave.
Thank you, Hobo! My sentiments exactly.
On the other hand; maybe I would have been just the same way even if I hadn't been born a JW? Now there's a scary thought....
tim
when i was jw, i didn't know any vegetarians.
they had the teaching that god had allowed us to eat animals, so we just eat animals.
no questions asked.. just recently i started to consider being vegetarian.
I've been a veggie since the early 90's.
I watched a programme about the meat processing industry, and simply felt that I didn't want to support or sponsor such practices in the future.
Don't get me wrong, I've no objection to anyone going out with a rod or gun and bagging their own supper, but it's the wholesale forced-growing and casual abuse of live animals that makes me a little queasy. Maybe too much compassion is a bad thing?
Yes, I eat dairy products, wear leather shoes and feed my cats on non-specific offal. That's my line that I've drawn, and I'm happy where I am.
At 6ft and 200lbs, I'm not your archetypal skinny & pale veggie, so it comes as a surprise to some people.
Just one observation though; whenever it does come out in company, there'll always be at least one knuckle-dragger who feels compelled to point his finger into his own open gob, and say "See them, mate? Canine teeth they are, mate..................."
tim
I been loving this song for while now! So very clever.
tim
let's give tim hooper some support......... fantastic tim.
thanks for sharing and keep it up!!!!!.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mowdbiwqxq8.
Thank you so much everyone!
This little exercise wasn't so much about my dodgy strumming or wailing vocals, but it was all to do with regaining my self-confidence after several years of the doldrums, so your validations really mean the world to me!
The guitar? Well, it's an Ovation Matrix that I bought over 25 years ago. Even though it was the very cheapest of the range, it still represented nearly a months wages way back in 1982. I've never used it to it's true potential though!
tim
Fantastic!
I just got home in time today to watch the final 6 laps. A superb result, for an unprecedented career start for this young man.
He'd never even been to Montreal before this weekend!
tim
i found this information very helpful in understanding thoughts and feelings i have had exiting the organizatoin.
hope it is helpful to another.
from anatomy of the spirit by carolyn myss, ph.d.. tribal culture.
Our spiritual power grows when we are able to see beyond the contradictions inherent in tribal teachings and pursue a deeper level of truth
This is the key phrase for me, Purps.
Not just accepting the stuff we're brought up to believe as kids is something that not many people would ever think of doing. Seems to me that the majority of people still follow the tenets they were inculcated with as kids throughout the remainder of their adult lives. It's a form of self-perpetuated blinkering.
tim
just no naughty pictures though...... perhaps something of interest that you see in your country that some of us would not have in ours?
just a thought....... i took this one of a dragon fly that was hanging out on our gate.
beautiful irridescent purple and maroon wings.
So many beautiful pics! Thank you everyone.
I took a trip around Lake Vyrnwy (pronounced Vern-ee) in Wales last week. The weather was dull and the light was pretty flat, but here's a few of the pics anyway................
